Why is it sometimes so difficult to win back an ex? No doubt you’ve tried your best to get your ex back, but everything you’ve tried, has ended in failure and now you’re frustrated.

Well the real answer of why it’s difficult to win back an ex is really two fold. The first point is that once you’ve been dumped by someone you’re still in love with the balance of power immediately shifts their way. The second point is that most people have no real idea what to do to get back with their ex, and end up spending a great deal of time doing all the wrong things.

Truth is, once your ex has the upper hand in a relationship you can find yourself forever trying to catch up to them and both of you know it. If your ex knows that you want them back, sometimes they will make you work to get them back and they will often enjoy putting you through hell. Simply put, they have something that they know you want.

To win back an ex then, play it cool!You don’t have to tell your ex right away that you want them back. Just keep your intentions to yourself and try to distance yourself from them.

If you’re reading this because you feel you know that your love is about to break up with you, then when the break up comes, agree to it and let them go. Don’t tell them that you want them to stay.

When they are gone, keep yourself busy and occupied with other things that have nothing to do with your ex and your relationship.Don’t be available to talk or to do favors for them.If they call, be polite, talk for a few minutes, but make it clear you’re busy and have things to do.

Let me warn you! Many people faced with trying to distance themselves from their exs simply can’t do it! They mistakenly believe that if they run around doing favors for their exs that their ex will see them as someone they need. They think they will be able to prove and show their exs how much they love them by being there for them! Wrong! This seldom works because what happens is that the ex gets fed up with them hanging around in their life and start to take advantage. Don’t fall into that trap!

Keep your distance and what will begin to happen is that you will feel the power naturally swing your way and you will be in a far better position to win back ex.