To start off, are you totally relaxed when it comes to approaching girls that you do not know? If this is right, read on, if its not, you suffer from whats known as approach anxiety. Approach anxiety is basically being afraid of approaching women & many many men have it. Its a widespread issue. You MUST cure your approach anxiety first before you do anything else. Click here now to cure your approach anxiety in less than 30 days.

Lets get on with today’s lesson……..

 
A huge roadblock guys run into on their way to greater success with girls is getting the girl you want to accept your offer of going on a date. I understand that going from the bar to the bedroom (also known as a same night lay) may be what you really want, but for most men knowing how to get a date is what’s going to bring on most of their success with girls.

A most important skill in your overall dating skillset is the technique of consistently getting a woman to say “yes” when you ask her on a date. Setting up a date the proper way will mean few cancelations and much less predate flaking. What follows is the exact technique you want to use to ask any woman out on a date with you.
 

1.   Create a plan- Come up with a great or intersting date in
advance that you’ll use time & time again. Something that
     really gets girls excited or interested. it could even be
a crazy dive bar on Thursday evening or whatever else. Just be
     unique and make it something that people want to do.

 

2.   Plant the “Seed”- Accidentally mention it, or something about it
to her towards the beginning of your conversation with out asking the girl
to come along with you on a “date”.

 

3.   Oversell it but don’t ask her yet- When you let her in on your
special plan, make sure it seems incredibly cool & extremely
interesting or anything you feel the girl will react well to,
but do not invite the girl! This is crucial. She’ll be thinking “Why
isn’t this dude asking me? Every other pussy can’t wait
to ask me out. I wonder if this guy even likes me?”

 

4.   Ask her through a qualifier- A few minutes or even an hour
later, use a qualifying question that is date related,
then ask her. As an example, if you previously stated you had
     these cool cocktail/dinner parties, qualify her by saying
     “I usually only let girls who can cook come to my party, are
     you a good cook?” This is what is known as a qualifier. Then ask
     her by saying “Alright, you can come, you’ve earned it. I
love a woman that cooks.(Or at least isn’t afraid of cooking)

 

5.   Get her number for a confirmation call- Right after that ask her for her
     number. You could even give her your phone and say “here, type
your number in my cell & I’ll phone you with the secret details.”I love
     to make up a funny nickname for each girl on the spot and put it
     into my phone.

  

After you have finished with the 5 steps, you should be money and it will
also prevent tons of flaking on dates as well as canceling. This happens to be an excellent technique for
getting a date because you just don’t come out and ask her for a date
which really shows the power that she has over you….Instead you flip it around
and get her to qualify herself to you BEFORE asking her on the date.
She is now chasing you :) and this is right where you want her.

Now, when you’re on your date is a whole other story. You’ve got to know how
to keep her attracted to you. The best resource I know for this is called
Five Minute Attraction. This program will show you, step by step, the secrets to getting any woman attracted
to you within the first 5 minutes. Click here right now to see the 5 minute attraction program.