Ok guys, do you often feel like you just can’t hit it off when it comes to talking to women? Are you a complete ’open mouth insert foot’ and ending up at a loss in your romantic life because you keep turning women off when you communicate with them? Then you see other men who don’t seem to be any more intelligent than you or attractive and girls just seem to be totally interested in them. Why is that? Well, if you are anxious to discover what you need to know about communicating with women then here are ten ways to sharpen your game:

The first thing is that you gotta forget about attempting to impress her. Girls aren’t interested in you trying to make up their mind for them about how they should feel about you. If you really want to be able to communicate with a woman you better just relax and let her determine what she thinks about you.

The second thing you need to master is keeping your compliments about how beautiful she is to yourself. Trust me, if she’s pretty, she knows she is. She’s had men telling her for as long as she can remember, so what’s the bigger if you tell her what she has heard already? If you must tell her something nice, find something about her demeaner or something she is wearing.

 

The third thing is that you can’t be afraid to enter her space. This means that you touch her lightly on the arm when you are speaking or at least touch one of her items like her purse or her mobile phone. You see, girls have this kind of sixth sense and they can tell if you are uneasy. Then they get uncomfortable and suddenly they just decide they don’t like feeling that way and they book.

The fourth thing you need to learn is boundaries. If you can see that a women is ready to end the conversation and you turn into that desperate man who tries to retain her attention she is going to tune you right out. Think about it, she could be busy or maybe she is just a little on the edge because she is kind of attracted to you. Either way, if you come off as needy she is going to book.

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The fifth thing to master is the art of polite put down. for instance, you point out something about her that is not so cool or even unattractive. Just do it in a non-threatening way and don’t be mean or critical. This will cause her to feel that she has to convince you otherwise and before she knows it she will be all over you trying to win your attention.

Sixth, you must master sexual tension. Now this is something which puts the misfortunate nice guys in the friends category when it comes to girls. You see, physical attraction between a man and a female requires some dissonance for it to be effective. This means that you oppose her and even challenge her in a teasing sort of way.

The seventh thing is building comfort. The issue is that most guys attempt to achieve this by catering to her every desire and being a nice boy. Sorry, that will only make her feel really uncomfortable. Why? Because a girl feeling comfortable is all about her having confidence in your ability to keep her safe, being a nice boy just doesn’t get the job done when it comes to that.

That brings us to the eighth principle and that is being the bad boy in place of the ’mr. nice guy’. You see, a girl is not attracted to the nice guy because she is scared that he won’t have the ability to make her feel safe. Being the tough guy is going to make her feel secure when she is with you and as she feels comfortable she is bound to let down her defenses.

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Number nine, take initiative. Women are a lot better at being easy on guys for taking action or making a mistake than they are to put up with a guy who is sluggish or indecisive. If you hold off until you understand how she feels about you before you take initiative, don’t be taken aback when she ends up being swept off her feet by a guy who will.

Finally, pursue the woman who is a bit of a challenge and who may not seem that she even care to have a man in her life. Plenty of guys are simply too scared of a confident woman. This only means that there is slimmer competition so if you are the man who takes a risk to go after the seemingly out of reach woman you are probably the man who is going to get to have her.

So make sure to practice each one of these steps and don’t falter unless you want to end up having soda and pie with the nice guys on weekend nights. Good Luck!