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Mass-media, doctors, psychologists… everybody talks about premature ejaculation and we end up believing that this phenomenon is an objective malfunction, a real failure of one’s sexual abilities. When a biological function goes smoothly and efficeintly it is neither a sign of fault nor illness but of good health.

Pleasure is the prime goal when men and women engage in sexual activity and not - as nature intended - procreation. When both partners enjoy their love life the sexual aspect of the relationship improves and strengthens it from the inside.

What premature ejaculation means?

Ejaculation is a reflext that goes along with the orgasm with most men. Concious control of the ejaculation is a rarity and most men can only dream about this. It is the lack of control of their bodies as well as of their minds that stops premature ejaculators from taming their arousal during sexual activity. When would you name the incident premature ejaculation?

Taboos have always spread an umbrella of shade on this phenomenon, which is very important as it touches more than 30% of men.

Having a feeling of shame because they can not bring their partner to orgasm makes men hesitant to talk about this issue more so because they have no idea you can .

Lasting less than two minutes - that is how the mainstream tries to define premature ejaculation. It is not time we speak about, it is all in the timing. The right timing with your partner.

No matter if it's before, 5, 10 or even 15 minutes into the penetration, when your loved one did not achieve the same satisfaction as you did, you ejaculated prematurely and robbed her not only of her pleasure but also of some respect for your quality as a lover. The orgasm is occuring as a bodily function which the man has no influence on.


Dating and premature ejaculation

I want to point out again that sexual malfunctioning or disease are all wrong term to describe premature ejaculation. We should not forget that it takes two to tango and for the dance to be as good as it can be you really need to do somthing to fix your premature ejaculation.

Since good sex is important to us ladies as well premature ejaculation can be a reason for a break-up. Men and women are equally frustrated when this problem appears. In order to make my point I talked to more women about their opinions of premature ejaculation; here is what they said

"I cannot take it any longer after three years of ridiculously short and unsatifiying sex. Sometimes I think he is angy at me and this is why he does not bother whether I have an orgasm as well or not? I am still in disbelieve how he could stop doing those exercises he once tried since he actually did get results from them.”

Another unsatisfied woman:"I can hardly believe how much fun the sex was in the beginning of the 3 year relationship I am in now; I could not get enough since it was so good. But for two years now he’s been ejaculating only 5 minutes after the beginning of the intercourse. At first it didn’t bother me and I used to say to myself that it’s only a question of time until it would get better but it’s still the case in the present and I have to masturbate after the sexual intercourse in order to get my orgasm. I even lack the need to have sex with him


Longer sex for you and your partner

It makes me sad that all the suffering is unneeded.

There are many ways in which premature ejaculation can be cured. This might be the reason why many men don't do anything about it - they are confused.

They need an overview of the premature ejaculation remedy.

Why not have longer sex now!