The methods I used to get my wife back are little known and often described as controversial, however I don’t agree.

If you are in the middle of a breakup you can make one of two choices. You can either try to get her back, or you can give up and walk away.

If you’ve taken the decision to move on you gotta ask yourself if it’s really the choice you want?

A lot of relationships, even ones that look dead and buried, can be rescued with a bit of effort and the right plan.

I used an off the shelf - get your ex back - system that I found on the net. Yes believe it or not there is such a thing. I know I was mega sceptical.

I made a decision to try and get my wife back. I didn’t see I had anything to lose. She was already gone so it was worth a go.

In the system I bought and used there was an extra section on psychology and psychological triggers that can be used on people to get them to do things we would like.

It’s not heavy hypnosis or anything like that, it’s simply a play with words that we all respond to in some way. Kinda like the way advertisers suck us in to purchase.

It’s a known fact that you could never force someone to do something that they wouldn’t normally do using hypnosis. So I think these crafty psychological tricks are pretty ok.

I used a few specific psychological moves in the overall system that I used to get her back.

One trick was to leave a message on her answer machine that included info that would make her curious. The idea was to get her to call back out of curiosity without actually asking her to call back.

She called a few times after that and always I had her favorite tune playing in the background. This further linked me to her fav tune.

After that it was one small step after another. Coffee, a casual date, a meal out somewhere, all these small steps led up to another slightly bigger one.

And these steps finally resulted in her moving back in. But by the time we were at this point the last big step didn’t seem all that big to her as she had been - programmed - by all the smaller steps.