If your wife, partner or lover has dumped you then you are no doubt living in a world of pain. I know I was. Pain pain and more pain.

You make your mind up to win her back, but how are you gonna manage that one?

You need a proven plan or you may as well give up now and wave goodbye to her.

You may ask where does one come across a plan like that? Fear not as many guys have been there done that and got the t shirt.

We copy their moves and methods to put together a battle plan. This may come at a hefty price! Well, not expensive but not free either.

I used a plan I got off the internet. To be frank I expected it to be a crock of…well you get the idea.

Turns out it wasn’t too bad after all. A lot of it was just wasted on me as there were bits that I thought were just filler.

But there are some great sections in it. Not least the part about using psychological mind games to get your ex back. Now you’re talking my language!

Before this though there was a useful (to me anyway) section on getting my head together before I attempted anything at all.

It was great for me as I was in bits. I can slug it out with the biggest of guys but break my heart and I’m crying like a new born.

I followed psychological step one and left her a message that was seeded with a few chioce phrases. She simply had to be curious about the message.

That message was a complete success. I never mentioned calling me back in the message but she did within 24 hours. Curiosity at work there.

I continued to do what the plan suggested. Making moves at suggested times for a few weeks. Voila, it worked a treat. Almost like there was no breakup.

I managed to get my wife back with an idiot proof step by step plan, and all for less than the cost of a cheapo date. Still fairly unbelievable if you ask me. Not complaining though!