Do You Continue Creating Emotionally Inept Lovers?
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …
“I always seem to create a partner who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to alter that”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main negative vibration I recurred from my long string of failed relationships. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or traveled all the time.
When you continue creating unavailable lovers, my question to you is, “Is something in you that has a fear of commitment, or afraid to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be hard to accept right now, but that’s what I find to be the situation in most cases.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also suggest that you get extremely clear about what you want. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you want in your ideal mate.
You make the list for yourself so you can attain clarity concerning what it is you really want. You’ll start to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you make the list. You’ll see where you need to go to increase your level of creation or belief in the chance of attracting what you’re asking for.
To evoke the state of feeling happy expectancy, next ask yourself the question “Why do I want it”? It’s time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful things you’ll do together. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it’ll be like to be with someone who is romantic and loves to bring you a bouquet.
You create the list for yourself, and the Universe recognizes your clarity – the pure intention and unresisted desire!
Many of us have been told from childhood to accept what you get, it’s not kosher to ask for anything, why can you not just be happy with what you have? - kind of like programming. I suggest you ask for it all and keep feeling yourself into the alignment of your desires.
