So you want to learn how to approah women do you?

In order to approach women correctly, you need to overcome your own approach anxiety. So how do you do that? You need to change your mental state so that you will be satisfied with the fact that you completed the process of approaching and not worry too much about the outcome.

I know this may sound counter intuitive and unproductive for men, because we use logic to dictate our thoughts. If you look at why men are afraid of approaching women, you’ll notice that most of them are afraid because they are too worried about the outcome. For guys, I know we care too much about being rejected or not getting the outcome we had hoped for.

But, once you get out of the outcome focused mindspace, and change your thoughts to focus about just completing the approach, then it will remove unwanted pressure. This removes the outcome based approach and you will no longer be afraid of rejection, because well, the very act of you approaching is a success to you! Heck, if you get her number or a date, well that’s a bonus!

If you do this, and take this mentality into other aspects of your dating life, you will realize that alot of self limiting beliefs are actually created by yourself and your desire to achieve a certain outcome. Once you realize that the focus should not be on the outcome and divert it towards the process, then your success rate will increase.

Do not make a big deal about the OUTCOME and instead think about the PROCESS!

Why do you want to put more pressure on yourself when there’s no need.

If you don’t want to be like all the other chumps and make stupid approach mistakes, check out: Approaching Women. Please don’t be a chump and fall for these common mistakes!