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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

A Life Coach for people with self-confidence or self-esteem issues is very helpful in answering this following question. Women tend to suffer the most from self-esteem, sense of abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy issues. Life Coach Advice for Women is one way to solve this problem in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just meant to be alone”? Anita, since you responded to our survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you’ve considering creating love for yourself. There are many who decide to keep out of intimate relationships. And that need not be the situation for a person who has given up because they’ve continuously been unsuccessful. Not a thing is wrong with preferring to be without a serious relationship. Your life can be fulfilling and wonderful with any choice you end up with.

As long as you realize you are choosing that rather than throwing up your hands out of frustration that you have not created the love of a lifetime. You can acquire it all in a relationship and in life.

If you could view yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you’d see a wonderful, fantastic, illuminated, connected person. Then life begins to happen around us. Our oblivious parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, teach us from day one what we need to look out for, warn us, caution us, and try to shelter us, effectively having us adhere to their fears and projections of insecurity instead of listening to our own guidance systems. OK, I will grant you as brand new children we do need protection. Fine. But soon after they understand to function by themselves, self-empowerment needs to be part of the training for the little ones.

Well-intentioned parents desire to do the correct thing so they guide, hold back, admonish, and scare young ones to make them behave. This only underscores a level of insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets embedded as a child.

Neurological research now tells us that until we’re 7, we’re so open and receptive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever comes into our life experience. It is no question we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, thoughts about an imperfect nature. By the time we’re 6 years old, we have listened to the word “NO” approximately 60,000 times. Look out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t do that. The recurring communication says you’re inept, you cannot trust you, you don’t understand what you’re doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were indeed well-meaning. They only wanted our well-being. But you can see how simply we’ve been trained away from our innate greatness and brilliance.

I recommend that you go easy on yourself and give yourself a chance. First off, it is not your fault. It’s not even the fault of your elders. They were taught that way as well. You can stop the prevalence of low sense of self-worth on yourself and those you care about. You deserve to have everything you wants.

Do your very best to lavish yourself love and self-acceptance. Treat yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe appreciates, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being loves you. Why? Because you ARE lovable. And that IS the reality!