It is inevitably going to happen to you when you are out looking for girls.  Having a great conversation with a girl you are interested in is always the goal when out with the guys. Once you find her, you stop to think how you can best get her interest. You start off by talking to her and her friends. You have gotten the guts to talk to the girls.  Something doesn’t seem right though. All her friends are very approachable but the girl you were focusing on isn’t giving you much attention to work with.

Do not lose hope my friend.  She not giving you attention because shes not attracted to you.  By focusing on her you gave her the ego boost she needed to sort of play hard to get with you. 

She gets the feeling of importance and now the ball is in her court.  She doesn’t want to lose her value her friends see her in so she doesn’t respond as some girl who’s easy as Sunday Morning.  A girl would rather keep her value with her girlfriends than show her interest in you.  The solution? Change your approach! It is important to note that this tip comes from Tiffany Taylor’s Guy Gets Girl ebook.

The Deflection Theory is when you take that interest and attention from the girl you are interested in and focus that attention onto one or more of her girlfriends.  The Deflection Theory is going to bring competition between the girls especially the one you are interested in.She is going to realize that you aren’t providing her with any attention and she is going to start wondering what went wrong?  She is going to try to now get your attention back, which is what you’ll gladly take.  See how the guy gets the girl with this? 

This technique allows for you to be chased and her to be challenged.  Use this to increase your chances of being successful in the dating scene and to get the girl.