Finding the secrets to attracting a woman may be easier than you think. Ask one! Furthermore, you will be best served by asking a woman that is similar to the type you’re searching for. To make it a little easier on you, I will give you a few attracting women secrets based on certain types of women so that you can get off to a good start.

First and foremost, one of the secrets to attracting women isn’t so secret at all. It starts with how you look; your appearance. You really don’t need to be as attractive as most celebrities, but you need to keep up with your hygience - daily showers, your hair and general grooming. And here is one that is non-intuitive to most men - your shoes. Women pay a lot of attention to shoes. Get some nice ones. Chances are that you are not an athlete either, so get on an exercise plan, lose some weight and get in shape. To attract a woman you at least need to take care of yourself on the most basic levels.

First up are the athletic types. If you really want to attract these, then you need to do the same. These women are not turned off by sweat! These women are definitely attracted to athletic, fun-loving men, and better still if you’re benefiting from that exercise. Some women will be attracted to a little bit of friendly competitiveness. Some women just want to watch you do what you do, but athletic and energetic women almost always look for a man who knows how to have fun, control his temper when losing a game or performing poorly, and can laugh at himself.

Perhaps sports are not your thing and you are looking for the secrets to attracting women that are just as much in love with books as they ever will be with you. The first rule here is not feel threatened by their intelligence (or at least show it). Your own thirst for knowledge, and your cleaned up well toned appearance, can be a very attractive quality.

Are you looking for a woman who is fun, adventurous, and is even willing to play video games with gusto? This may be the easiest yet - be fun yourself and they’ll notice. Smile a lot, genuinely enjoy yourself, go easy on the sarcasm and you’re well on your way. Practically any online dating guide will tell you the same.

The power-lunch type woman is a little tougher. This is the take-control type, organized, driven with an eye for success. Being in shape, smelling good (don’t overload on the cologne) and dressing sharp is the way to go. Support this type of woman, congratulate her when appropriate and don’t be threatened by her success. Women like this are hard to attract because romance isn’t so much on their radar. Leaving a few roses for her and introducing small romantic gestures into her life might make her reconsider that she really can have it all.

Overall, the top ’secrets’ to picking up women are: looking good, being happy yourself and being genuinely interested in her. Women aren’t looking for men they have to take care of. Take good care of yourself and women will respond to you with much more interest.

Good luck!