Many guys will tell you that learning how to pick up girls isn’t a big challenge if you put your mind to it. Picking up girls is something that you learn and develop over the course of a year.

The most challenging part about picking up girls is starting to go out and willfully approach girls frequently. The first time you go out with this goal in mind, you might feel a rush of adrenaline. Although it’s perfectly acceptable, this might force you to forget some of the theory on approaching girls, so you should make sure you have memorized them beforehand.

Here’s what you really need to know when you start approaching girls:

  • Make sure that you have something prepared before you go out because your mind will be panicked
  • Put on clothes that looks good on you according to others.
  • Always have a cell phone to take down numbers.
  • Prepare one good opener before you go out, openers are bits of conversation that you’ll use to start the conversation.
  • Go to places where you’ll feel comfortable screwing up, it will relieve some of the social pressure.

The biggest problem that guys encounter when approaching women is that they just can’t seem to figure out how to start chatting with them at first. Fortunately, there’s an easy fix and it’s to simply write and remember opening lines before you go out.

An opening line can be as simple as “Hello, I noticed you and wanted to say hi” to something more extravagant such as “Hi, I only have a second, but I wanted a female opinion on this… Who lies more? Men or women?”

Now a lot of guys are afraid that they will be “discovered” by using the same lines over and over again. However, the opposite is actually closer to the truth. The more you use the same line to pick up a girl, the more you will seem natural and at ease with it.

After a few tries, you’ll be beginning conversations faster and easier than ever before. After having started a conversation with a girl, it will be wise to have a backup story in case your mind goes blank. Have a story ready to say, or a bit of information that’s pertinent to the moment.

Remember, the largest issue that guys encounter when learning how to pick up girls is that their mind simply goes blank when they are in the situation. If you can prepare what you’re going to say beforehand, then you don’t need to think about it and even if your mind goes blank, you can rely on what you prepared beforehand.

This gives you a foolproof way of picking up girls, which will ultimately give you the experience you need to do it without having anything prepared in advance.