Do you wonder if your spouse is cheating? Here are 10 signs your partner may be having an affair. These  do not always  mean that they are cheating. However too many of these are a good indication that something is going on. If you see these happening, you should talk to your partner about it. If there is mistrust in your marriage, you may ask a close friend or spiritual leader to talk with them. Although these do not necissarily mean someone is cheating, it could be a sign of guilt over something. These are not in any specific order.

Be aware of these 10 signs of a cheating spouse:

1. Sudden Evasiveness—evasiveness about who they spend time with is a signal of an affair. If someone is cheating, he or she will try to keep you in the dark about whom they are with.

2.  Change in Appearance—sudden changes in attitude towards their appearance is a sign of something changing. Are they suddenly dressing up just to run some errands? Have they suddenly changed their hairstyle or the way they dress, with no reason for why?

3. Finding receipts for gifts you never received — finding receipts for gifts you, never received such as flowers or jewelry is a big sign of something going on.  They may be hidden for later, but often this is a sign that they were for someone else.

4. Changes in intimacy—this will vary in many different ways. If they suddenly have no interest in intimacy, or suddenly start wanting to try new things, this could be a bad sign for your relationship

5. Suddenly changing time away from home — if your spouse suddenly working more, but no signs of it in their pay, you may need to be concerned. Are they having to go away more frequently, or spending late nights at work? Make sure you know what is going on, and find out from other coworkers if this is really on the job.

6. Breaking promises —when your partner suddenly changes plans and cannot keep their commitments, you need to find out why. It does not mean much if it is occasionally happening, but it is a clue when it becomes a normal habit.

7. Suspicious phone calls —notice if they are taking suspicious phone calls. When you come into the room, do they suddenly get off the phone a lot? Do they suddenly get a lot of calls that they do not want you to overhear? They will have to hide who they are talking with, or what they are talking about, if they are having an affair.

8. Strong intuition —trust your inner intuition. If it tells you something is going on, look into it. Make sure it is intuition and not just a jealous fear from a past relationship.

9. Finding Contraceptives you do not use —finding a box of condoms, or contraceptives, even though you do not use them, is a bad sign. If you find these, you need to confront your spouse quickly.

10. Hiding who they chat with online —if your partner is spending a lot of time chatting on the computer, but has to shut it off and delete any messages when you walk in the room, this is very suspicious. IF they cannot trust you to find out what they are chatting about, you need to be wary of who they spend time with online.

These are not definitive. However, if you have half or more of these signs in your marriage, you need to talk with your spouse immediately. Once you know these 10 signs of a cheating spouse, you will know if your marriage is in trouble. take time to learn all you can when dealing with infidelity. You want to be sure that you are right before accusing your spouse of cheating.