If you are anything like me I’m sure you are feeling rock bottom right about now.

After six great years she upped and left. I couldn’t come to terms with it and was emotionally battered.

I clearly misjudged the situation but I though everything was ok, as I’m sure you may have.

I made a decision to get her back and this time make it work. I wouldn’t take her for granted and I wouldn’t make any mistakes.

I tried calling her and leaving a few messages saying sorry for whatever it was. I left text messages but nothing worked. In fact it had the opposite effect.

I gave up any contact for a few weeks as it seemed to be driving her further away. And that was not my intention.

At this point I was at a loss. I didn’t have a clue what to do here.

As far as I knew the only thing to do was to drag her to marriage counselling. The likeliest outcome was her refusing to go along.

When I was deleting the millions of spam messages in my inbox a thought occurred to me.

The subject of some of these spam messages is fairly unbelievable.

Not to delve too deep into the spam but I thought if there’s stuff like that on the net there may be stuff to help me get my ex wife back.

After a lot of searching I kept coming back to two -get my wife back- systems. About forty dollars a piece, so I got them both.

One was a let down in my view and the other had a bit too much filler for my liking but it had potential. Especially the section on psychological tactics. My kind of stuff!

I won’t go too deep into it but I simply knew that she was coming back after I put step 1 into action. A simply unbelievable tactic.

Step one involved leaving her a message but not asking her to call me back. I had to say thanks and that I think the split was the right thing to do.

The idea was to get her curiosity levels raised enough to make her call me back. Curiosity did in deed kill the cat and it got my ex to call me back.

She was on the phone to me within the day wanting to know how I was, what I was up to, was I seeing anyone. She couldn’t get enough info.

It was here that I realised she still had feelings and that if I did things right she would be back before long. I followed the system to the letter and she was back within 6 weeks.

I took my time and played it cool. I was in control and though it could have been quicker it took about six weeks to get my wife back. Though it happened, it seemed all too easy.